
For leaders who know that prioritising themselves isn’t selfish – it’s strategic!
The Selfish Leader Club is a space for leaders who want to show up differently – share insights, tips and knowledge. It’s a place where we all recognise the benefits that come with embracing selfish leadership as a strategy for growth.

For leaders who know that prioritising themselves isn’t selfish – it’s strategic!
The Selfish Leader Club is a space for leaders who want to show up differently – share insights, tips and knowledge. It’s a place where we all recognise the benefits that come with embracing selfish leadership as a strategy for growth.
What’s included when you join:
When you join, you’ll get immediate access to practical tools, powerful insights, and a growing community of leaders who believe that taking care of themselves is a strength, not a weakness.
- 11-page Leadership Wellbeing Report with insights from 338 leaders and recommendations for change
- Bi-weekly Selfish Leadership insights by Gary Parsons
- Member-only tools, downloads and first access to events
- Behind-the-scenes stories from the Leaders in Disguise podcast
- Access to a growing leadership community redefining what it means to lead well

Join the Club Today!
For too long, we’ve celebrated leaders who sacrifice everything for their teams, businesses and missions – often at the cost of their own health, energy, and identity.
The truth is that you can’t lead effectively from a place of depletion. Exhausted leaders don’t make great decisions. Burnt-out leaders can’t inspire others. And selfless leadership, when taken to the extreme, becomes self-erasure.
This is the shift we’re building together inside the Selfish Leader Club and why it’s time to fully embrace Selfish Leadership ™
What are Other Leaders Saying?
Selfish Leadership isn’t about ego, it’s about protecting your capacity to lead with energy, clarity and impact.
Business leaders to look through an alternative lens and recognise that traditional 'selfishness' can actually empower people to avoid sacrificing their values and burning out.
Thomas Clarke
Excellent - selfish is a strategy and great to remind everyone it is so important.
Amy Hallam
I worked with business leaders mostly all of my HR career and observed burn outs and metal break downs frequently. Often unable to help due to stigma attached and being perceived as a weak leader if they show any struggle.
Viktoriya Brown
I’ve learnt to let go of the guilt that used to come with putting myself first, because I now understand that looking after myself isn’t a luxury – it’s a responsibility. If I’m not at my best, I can’t support others to be at theirs.
Darren Dunn
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